In Steve’s own words …
In Bangalore, I used to walk to the local Indian school, St. Anthony’s Boy’s School. Sometimes I took a rickshaw. The driver would be peddling on the street and I would wave him down. It was cheap and I had enough pocket money. I thought school was thorough and complete meaning subjects were covered thoroughly and completely without any gaps or holes. But when I went on to a British school in Bangalore I discovered there were holes in what I had been taught. It didn’t matter. I just loved learning and reading. Given that my father ran a library there were plenty of books at my disposal. My parents were open to me reading anything. There were no PTA (parent teacher association) meetings. No judgements. My father probably gave me the most books on all sorts of subjects.
The dachshund would meet me when I walked home from school. My general routine after returning home was to put on outdoor clothes and go climb a tree. There were not so many other kids around. Sometimes a few. We lived on Richmond Road, a street with lots of bungalows. White people generally lived in these bungalows, mostly Brits. They worked for the state I guess maybe civil servants.
My dad had a jeep as part of his job. On Sundays we would drive to mass at the Catholic church. I remember the building as spacious. Sometimes he would drive me to the library where he worked. That seemed spacious to me too. Everything seemed spacious to me back then. Even our bungalow.
I remember the bungalow had a veranda. I remember lots of plants on ours planted by the gardener and by my dad as well. My father liked to garden growing all kinds of plants edible and not. I remember everything from African violets to basil.
In addition to the dachshund and siamese cat, he owned parakeets. About four or five blue parakeets in a green cage. He also kept fish in a standard fish bowl. They were just plain old fish not very interesting to me. He also kept two horses. He loved animals. He’d grown up on a farm in Nebraska.
I fell from a mango tree and my dad looked at my arm and decided it was broken and took me to the doctor. I also fell while climbing a wall. A piece of the wall broke off in my hand and that’s how I fell. A stranger, an Indian man, picked me up and took me up to the house. Broke my arm that time too catching myself with my hand and elbow beneath me. But aside from events like this I felt safe and happy in Bangalore.
I enjoyed the food. My first glass of water there I drank not realizing there were peppercorns in the glass. Overall the food was not spicy. We had a cook. He would make me fried chicken. When my father was entertaining he would take over the kitchen. He greatly enjoyed cooking. From him I learned how to make pesto. He was a good cook.
My younger sister had been born in Italy. My mother had her hands full with me, a baby and my father and all our animals. She was very beautiful and always smelled nice. Like flowers.



Thank you Steve (and/via Cynthia) for sharing these recollections! What an interesting and unusual childhood you had.
I especially loved hearing about your Mongooses (which, despite knowing better, is always “mongeese” in my brain).
Riki Tiki Tavi made a big impression on me at about the same age you were. The only time I’d ever seen one was on St. John’s in the Virgin Islands when I was about 11 and just learned today that they are, sadly, an invasive species there 🤨
Anyway, thank you again for the interesting stories and trip down memory lane.
Hope you both are hanging in during these insane/insanely awful times.
Pam
Steve says thanks in reply for reading these stories! And he used to love saying “mongoslings.” 🙂
These are so beautiful memories of young Steve in india… congrats on doing this fantastic chronicle of his childhood…
Thanks for sharing!!!
Hug to both of you!
Adriana
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I love the stories, and the pictures are priceless! The boys in their uniforms, the First Communion, and especially your mom, Elsie. I first met her years after this, and she always exuded humor, grace, and loving kindness; the wry smile on her face here so reflects that humor! I still call policemen hiding along the freeways to catch speeders “green slimies…” compliments of Elsie.
Judy
By the way, NO idea where that name shown for me came from; it’s nothing I have an association with…?
No idea either but no worries. 🙂