Have you ever listened to Barber’s Adagio for Strings? If so, what did you experience?
I have never forgotten my first time. I must have been sixteen or seventeen. Still in high school. Sitting in the dark of the living room while the family watched Oliver Stone’s Platoon. Stone’s words delivered by the actors, the cinematographer’s vision executed on screen, the historical context, and that music wrapping it all together. I wish I could better explain the power of that moment and why today that music brings me to tears.
As a writer, I sometimes listen to music to help ground me or to help me tap into an emotional space. Barber’s Adago helps me to pause, to breathe, and be carried away by the lines of music. I have read that it is considered one of the saddest pieces of music ever. Even sadness, perhaps especially sadness, we need to explore on occasion in writing, in music, in words, in pictures. As a friend of my has a penchant for saying, “It’ll make you stronger.”


A beautiful fall day. I sit at my computer staring through the window at sunlight shining down on the oak tree. I have many projects to work on, either for myself or for clients. Yet all I want to do is curl up in a quilt with a cup of something warm and watch the tree branches dance in the wind.



