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Adagio apparently is an Italian word for “slow” or “at ease.” If marked on a sheet of music it tells a musician to play at a slow, leisurely, and controlled pace.

Adagio for Strings by Samuel Barber is one of my favorite pieces of music. I remember exactly when I first heard it. I was sixteen at home in Lynchburg, Virginia. There weren’t all these streaming services back then. Maybe we were paying for just HBO in addition to the regular cable stations. Think TBS and CBN. It was a Saturday evening. I know that because my dad was home and not working an evening job. This acclaimed theatrical movie was finally making its debut on HBO. The movie was Oliver Stone’s Platoon.

Everybody else, my parents, my brothers, were already in the living room. The lights were low, you know, creating our movie theatre experience. The movie had already started and I was stopped in my tracks, literally, during that opening sequence when the young naive enlistee played by Charlie Sheen is walking past the soldiers who are leaving, those soldiers, probably as young as he, who had survived their tour in Vietnam, with their weathered faces. The music swept me away, and goodness know, that finale with the music sweeping once more. No spoilers if you haven’t seen it.

But today I think back and I wonder what my father was thinking as he watched the movie. He had served in the Korean War, the first war where black and white troops served in the same regiments. It wasn’t pretty. He didn’t tell me details but he told my brothers and they later in life, after he’d passed away, shared some of his stories. And I wonder what Steve was thinking as he watched … I never asked him though I think I had him watch it with me because of that soundtrack … I think at the time I did not know how close he’d come to having his number called to serve in Vietnam.

I now know a young man who served in the Army overseas in recent years and returned whole in body but damaged in impactful ways, but not in ways that keep him from loving and living a meaningful life, with a growing family. I wish him and that family well. And I thank him and all of the others for their service.

Willie Brown Staples serving in the Korean War in the 1950s.

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So as I walked around the house with Steve’s Japanese wooden sword draped over my shoulder, I thought of the warriors in Akira Kurosawa’s The Seven Samurai. I especially thought of the character played by actor Toshiro Mifune who carried his scabbarded metal sword that way, walking sometimes with a drunken gait. Growing up I was big into action movies, the good ones like The Seven Samurai, the bad ones and everything in between. Interest has waxed and waned over the years but in recent times Steve and I had been watching the occasional martial arts movie via the streaming services.

About six or so years ago, after completing treatment for cancer, Steve and I impulsively walked into a martial arts studio and he resumed his studies begun in youth. Less about defense, as the focus may have been when he’d been a young man, but more so a focus on improving balance, strength building, increasing range of motion, etc. The cancer had impacted his eyesight as well as other things and there were many exercises, including with the sword, to help body and brain rewire to deal with new deficits in motion and vision.

Steve was always very mindful when he was swinging the sword around the house. He’d say, “Don’t get too close behind me and don’t stand on my left where I can’t see you.” Now I thought he was being overly cautious but I do realize, in hind sight, that one of my blind spots with Steve is that I never perceived how tall he was and therefore how long his reach. I appreciate that he found many ways to look out for me.

As for the sword, I took a few big swings mimicking some moves I’d seen in movies. After a few “Ow!” I decided, if I choose to keep it, I should probably get in touch with Steve’s teacher to get some proper training. 🙂

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