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I have learned that my brother and I have been independently dreaming of front porches.  We live in homes now that have porches of a sort but not the porch of our childhood.  Each of us is feeling that call that comes at this time of year to make ready the porch.  Paint and put out the chairs.  Hope the maple tree next door will provide enough shade.  Try to grow some potted plants.  And so on.  In honor of those memories, I share this link to an essay I wrote not long after moving up north from down south:   Sitting on the Front Porch.

By the way, when I wrote this essay, my brother still lived in the house.  He now rents it to an older lady who likes to grow tomato plants in all available space including along the front porch.  And the elderly lady who appears near the end of the essay is still alive.  I visited her during a trip back to Virginia.  She was very welcoming from her front porch and even took us inside to sit for a bit where her children had to remind her at some point, “Mama, you are 99 not 89.”  Her response was “Is that right?”  And so it goes. 😉

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This is why I like having family fact checkers.  After a friend recently gave me a grapefruit, I simply remembered that my mother used to love that fruit.  When I called my brother, he was able to add, “Yep.  That’s right.  She used to gum ’em.”

You see she had false teeth that she only wore for school meetings or doctor visits.  At home there was no need for pretense.  Gum the fruit, she may have, but she also had lovely serrated spoons made special for scooping out grapefruit pulp.  According to my brother, the whole family ate the sour fruit and with lots and lots of sugar.  He said that he and I shared a single fruit. When most of the pulp was gone, we would try to squeeze the last remnants of juice into a glass.

“So we shared?” I said with a smile.  He agreed, and then added, “Unless you made me mad.  Then I’d put dogfood in the glass.”  It’s those little details … 😉

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Steve's Bookcase

Books are on my mind today in part because I sit in Steve’s living room surrounded by his floor to ceiling bookshelves.  Handmade out of a dark wood, the shelves are asymmetric and stuffed with books, maps, correspondence and all sorts of object d’art from throughout his life. If you were to walk around that room — please try to avoid tripping over the books piled in various corners — and scan those bookshelves, you’d have a sense of who he is and the journey of his life.

The journey of one’s life is what comes across in the pages of Eudora Welty’s One Writer’s Beginnings, a thin lovely little book based on a series of lectures she gave at Harvard University in the 1980’s.  And that is the book next to me this morning which, along with Steve’s bookcase, makes me nostalgic about the place of books in my life.   The passage currently lingering with me is where Welty describes how her parents sacrificed to buy her and her brothers books.  I was reminded of my own parents who did the exact same thing for my brother and I.

Of course, not every book was bought.  My father worked for the sanitation department and so on trash days he would find all sorts of things that people would throw out.  He always brought home the books.  Some things he kept separate from us kids like the Joy of Sex which my younger brother and I did eventually discover in a bureau drawer.  After we were caught my parents placed that book high on top of the refrigerator with my dad chuckling and my mother hushing him.  But all other books were fair game for viewing from onion-skinned bibles to old encyclopedias and modern biographies of movie stars.

I rarely remember my father picking up any of these books though he read the daily newspaper religiously.  My mother read all the time.  Together they encouraged our love of books and reading and so when our elementary school sent home a book order form for the Weekly Reader Book Club, my parents found the money to allow us to order a book.   We must have selected more than one but the first book that comes to mind is Gus the Friendly Ghost.  It was a small purple book, about a shy ghost who makes friends with a wily mouse in an empty house.  My brother had me read that book to him many nights in our early years.  It was his comfort food, especially the time after having a bad dream in which he got mad at me and pulled my head off!  I crawled into bed beside him as he cried and read him the book.  The whole time he patted my shoulder to make sure that I was there.

 

Anyway … that’s me and my early morning memories of books.  What first books do you remember and why?  😉

 

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