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It was back in December that I last posted a Words+Images update.  It focused on  end of year inspirations.   Now with spring on the horizon, I thought it time to share new updates.  Let’s see … 😉

Preparing for Somerville Open Studios

Somerville Open Studios 2011 is rapidly approaching and so I am trying to get myself in gear.  I’ve been sorting through images, selecting a set that will be turned into notecards and others that will be matted and framed.  For the first time, I will also have postcards available for sale.  The images will be representative of the changing seasons.  Seasons is the theme of my collaboration with artist Zoe Langosy.

Leading up to show there are many wonderful opportunities to exhibit including the upcoming SOS2010 Volunteer Show.

Sharing Stories

My business cards say “writer/photographer.” A better title would be “storyteller.”  That is what I do whether with words or with images.  With the passing of my Aunt Thelma recently, those fires within have been stoked to listen closely to those around me and to tell their stories well.

Memories

Who Killed Cock Robin?

Family Ties

Finding Perspective

There’s all sorts of things I could say about finding perspective this year.  With my camera, at least, let’s just say I found perspective by getting up close and personal with house plants and cut flowers.

One snowy day, I found a lemon …

And when the sun came out, I spied this bird sitting high in a tree.

I think that’s about it.  More to share in the spring … which is only 8 days away!

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The first time I traveled to NY and met my young cousin Tim, I learned two things.  First, that he’d taken a photograph that I had sent to my aunt of me riding a water buffalo (hey, it was for work!) to his school as part of show and tell.  Second, I learned that he had an insatiable infatuation for the subways and roadways of his hometown.  Moreover, he had a remarkable talent for capturing what he saw on paper.  And as the years have progressed, so has his talent and imagination.

Though he is too young to know the reference and from the wrong city, his early antics of skipping school to ride the rails all day brought to mind the legendary figure of Charlie, forever trapped in Boston’s subway system.

Until I learned how to read a subway map, Tim was my guide in the big city.  And even as he was pointing me in the right direction, he’d usually be called upon to help other lost souls as well.

 

Many years later, as far as I know, he no longer speaks of becoming an architect or urban planner.  His focus now is public policy and government.  No matter what career path he chooses after college, I am glad to see he is still carrying around his pens and notebooks.

 

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I know I’ve got too much going on when I feel too agitated to sit down and write a short letter or send a funny card to friends and family.  So this Sunday, I took a moment to sit at the kitchen table and send out a few notes to find out how people are and to share some updates from my life.

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Memories

My mother taught me to cook, to plant flowers, and to tell stories.  From her I learned to love books and to love writing.  She passed away before I ever wrote and had published my first story.  During her life, I never traveled abroad.  She never knew me with a camera in my hand.  She never met Steve or any other fellow in my life.  But her sister, my Aunt Thelma did.

In Aunt Thelma’s bedroom dresser are the postcards I sent to her from my travels all over the world.  On her bookshelves are the magazines and other clippings of my work.  And, last year, after I returned from my travels with Steve in Japan, she made me create a photo book for her.  “I need tangibles I can hold in my hand,” she said when I pointed out the pictures were viewable online.  “And include a picture of that fellow you’re seeing.  I don’t know if I’ll ever see him any other way.”  They never did meet, but she read about him, and they spoke on the phone once.  I sat next to her on her couch as she laughed with him on my cell phone.  I remember him asking her what he should call her.  She laughed and said, “Well, why you don’t call me what everyone calls me.  Aunt Thelma.”  After she hung up, she asked me if he was a good man.  I said yes.  And then we went on to talk about my brothers and their families.

Growing up in Virginia, my mother made it clear early in my life if I was ever in trouble I could call my Aunt Thelma who was living in New York.  When my mother died, Aunt Thelma traveled to Virginia and was there with me and my brothers, along with the rest of the family.  When my father died unexpectedly a year and half later, she couldn’t make it, but I will always remember standing in a hospital waiting room on the phone with her crying and her saying over and over, “You go ahead and cry.  It’s alright to cry.”

In bad times but mostly good, I called her, especially after I got a cell phone.  I could call her randomly as I returned home from work.  She’d laugh at my stories and in the end, wind up telling me to be careful as I crossed the street.  She always ended her calls with, “I love you, Cynthia.”

My Aunt Thelma passed away this weekend.  I will miss her.  I am thankful that she was in my life.  I learned a lot.  In NY this weekend, as the family gathered, I held one of my young cousins in my arms.  She was crying.  “I’m sorry,” she said as she tried to wipe her face.  I said, “Why are you apologizing? For crying? Don’t ever apologize for crying.  It’s alright to cry.  Do you know who taught me that?” When she shook her head, I said, “Aunt Thelma.”

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Steve's Bookcase

Books are on my mind today in part because I sit in Steve’s living room surrounded by his floor to ceiling bookshelves.  Handmade out of a dark wood, the shelves are asymmetric and stuffed with books, maps, correspondence and all sorts of object d’art from throughout his life. If you were to walk around that room — please try to avoid tripping over the books piled in various corners — and scan those bookshelves, you’d have a sense of who he is and the journey of his life.

The journey of one’s life is what comes across in the pages of Eudora Welty’s One Writer’s Beginnings, a thin lovely little book based on a series of lectures she gave at Harvard University in the 1980’s.  And that is the book next to me this morning which, along with Steve’s bookcase, makes me nostalgic about the place of books in my life.   The passage currently lingering with me is where Welty describes how her parents sacrificed to buy her and her brothers books.  I was reminded of my own parents who did the exact same thing for my brother and I.

Of course, not every book was bought.  My father worked for the sanitation department and so on trash days he would find all sorts of things that people would throw out.  He always brought home the books.  Some things he kept separate from us kids like the Joy of Sex which my younger brother and I did eventually discover in a bureau drawer.  After we were caught my parents placed that book high on top of the refrigerator with my dad chuckling and my mother hushing him.  But all other books were fair game for viewing from onion-skinned bibles to old encyclopedias and modern biographies of movie stars.

I rarely remember my father picking up any of these books though he read the daily newspaper religiously.  My mother read all the time.  Together they encouraged our love of books and reading and so when our elementary school sent home a book order form for the Weekly Reader Book Club, my parents found the money to allow us to order a book.   We must have selected more than one but the first book that comes to mind is Gus the Friendly Ghost.  It was a small purple book, about a shy ghost who makes friends with a wily mouse in an empty house.  My brother had me read that book to him many nights in our early years.  It was his comfort food, especially the time after having a bad dream in which he got mad at me and pulled my head off!  I crawled into bed beside him as he cried and read him the book.  The whole time he patted my shoulder to make sure that I was there.

 

Anyway … that’s me and my early morning memories of books.  What first books do you remember and why?  😉

 

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A nice surprise today when I checked email today and saw the latest Orion Magazine newsletter.  At the bottom of the page, in the “Places Where You Live” area, there was a link to “a couple of our favorites.”  Well, one of the favorites was a link for Somerville, Massachusetts.  Since I live in Somerville, I clicked on the link and what did I see?  Well, you can see for yourself.  I hope you enjoy.

http://www.orionmagazine.org/index.php/place_where_you_live/view/somerville_ma_5820/

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